Don't let the idea of starting, scare you into not starting. You have to begin somewhere, and usually, it's at the bottom. Besides, it's better to start out low and work your way up, than to be on top and get knocked down. I know you want people to support you, as did I. However, … Continue reading Do it anyway
Month: April 2020
Yes, you can
You don't have the resources to start a business, so you don't move forward. You want to go back to school, but you're not sure where to start, so you just quit. You want to buy a house, but your credit is low and you don't have the down payment. There are so many things … Continue reading Yes, you can
A different agenda
For two years, I practically begged this well-known Editor, to allow me to not only write a post for her column, but to become a permanent staff writer on the team. I'd given her samples of my work (my best work at that) and still, no response. I know one would think, after a few … Continue reading A different agenda
Covered
I'm still in a state of shock, and can't believe this has somehow managed to become our "new normal". I thought it so bizarre and strange when Michael Jackson used to wear a face mask and gloves out in public, but who knew we'd have to one day do the same. The things we used … Continue reading Covered
The Return
The number one thing that most people dread, particularly women, is going to the store to return an item they bought. Rather than go through the hassle of standing in line for a refund, they instead choose to keep what they have, even though it doesn't fit. I'm sure all of us can relate to … Continue reading The Return
Look no further
When we want approval, we look to others. When we want advice, we look to others. When we want assurance, we look to others. When we want a way out, we look to others. When we want to be happy, we look to others. We've given people so much control and responsibility over our lives, … Continue reading Look no further
Departed
Out of all the things that could happen in the world, you didn't see this coming. Because you were for certain they'd always be there, you never gave thought to their departure or planned for it, and now you're lost without them. Besides, you just knew they'd be around forever. But, what if forever was … Continue reading Departed
Glad
No matter what's going on in the world, I'm glad that we're still a part of it. Despite me working remotely, I'm just glad to be working, because a lot of people are unemployed. Chaos surrounds us and things looks as though they are quickly going from bad to worse, but I'm glad that our … Continue reading Glad
Now is not the time
I want to be married, right now! I want a set of identical twin girls, right now! I want my house built from the ground up, right now! I want to be an Academic Dean, right now! I want to cut the ribbon for the grand opening of my business, CH1 Bookstore and Lounge, right … Continue reading Now is not the time
Get it together
"Get yo sh** together", are the words my friend so "delicately" told me. Although I'm being facetious, he was for real. During one of our many private conversations, I expressed to him some desires of my heart. While he didn't think they were unreasonable, he felt as though the timing was just not right (more … Continue reading Get it together
