It’s not about you

A goal of mine when I started this forum, was to post every.....single....day! Needless to say, I haven't necessarily been on my "P's and Q's". Before I post, I ALWAYS ask God, "What do you want me to tell these people"? After sitting in deep thought for some minutes or two, I end up saying … Continue reading It’s not about you

Don’t know, don’t care

I don't know why it is so hard for people (strangers at that) to just mind their own da** business! Yesterday during one of my morning routines of getting coffee and a bagel, this guy decided to openly chastise me for wearing a leg-barring dress in 65 degree weather. If you're in Alabama, then you … Continue reading Don’t know, don’t care

When your feelings are tender, and the truth is hard

As much as I like to think I'm tougher than nails, sometimes I'm softer than Downy. For the most part, I'm one tough cookie, but there are moments I feel like I didn't bake long enough, because I can be "soft to the touch". Having said that, I am often guilty of having "tender" feelings. … Continue reading When your feelings are tender, and the truth is hard

I feel good when I “feel good” about me

Everyday I try to give myself positive affirmations, because if I relied on others to do it for me, my self-esteem would be pretty much non-existent. I make sure I reassure myself that I am beautiful, good enough and more than worth the wait! To be totally honest, I don't feel good, when I don't … Continue reading I feel good when I “feel good” about me